
This Will Never Work: 5 steps to better behavior guidance
Have you ever approached a problem with this kind of mindset: "This will never work" or "She will never change" only to discover that you...

I Want it NOW. How preschool helps to develop self-control.
Welcome to a blustery and cold weekend-- a certain reminder that our magical fall weather is on its way out, ushering in the...

Transition Trauma: when our best laid plans blow up.
I've been thinking about the transition into the new school year a lot-- maybe you have, too. We begin the school year in September much...

#Challengingbehavior: New Frames for Old Lenses.
There is NOT ONE of us parents who is exempt from the bumpy and sometimes treacherous road of challenging childhood behavior. And just...

Play More, Live Better
During my preparation for a talk on play and child development, I couldn't help but wonder: how many adults make room for play in their...

How to stop repeating yourself with your preschooler. With your preschooler.
MIIIIIIIINNNNNNNE! Is that a familiar refrain in your household? Or maybe there is little competition for toys and space at home but when...

Look At You! Praise Process, Not Prowess
"Look what I can do!" Do your kids ever shout these words to you? "Heeeeeey!!! lookit this!" I remember endless summer evenings, watching...

Transformation is Messy
I've been thinking about transformation lately. The kind that is hard to see-- almost imperceptible and then: wow! Something amazing...

It Still Takes a Village (to raise a child)
I have been spending some quality time in preparation for the upcoming debut of Parent University. It's been a privilege to re-read...

You Deserve a Break (to let the good stuff soak in)
As we start back to school in a new year and after a 12 day break, I have the sense that some universal reset button was pressed for our...